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The Law-Nudes-Requests for Nudes

26 March 2018 |

Is it against the law to ask for Nudes?

No. In New Zealand, if someone is sharing (or is threatening to share) nude photos or intimate images of you without your permission, there are a number of laws they might be breaking BUT it is not against the law for someone to ask for nudes.

It is the sharing that is the issue.

Is it against the law to send nudes?

No. It is also not against the law to send nudes of yourself to someone who has asked for them BUT if you are under 16 and the person you are sending them to is 16 or over then they could be charged with having indecent images.

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Nikita’s Story: Being asked over Snapchat

Nikita talks about chatting to someone over Snapchat and starting to really like him and then what happened when she said no to his request for nudes.

Nikita’s Story: SnapMaps

Nikita talks about changing her Snapchat settings to feel happy about using SnapMaps.

Claire’s Story: Snapchat Settings

Claire talks about changing her Snapchat settings after getting a snap from a stranger.

Bonnie’s Story: A jealous ex spreading rumours

Bonnie talks about a rumour spread by a jealous ex that she was in a gang bang and how this was accepted as the truth. The hate and abuse that followed made her feel alone and worthless until she had an opportunity for a fresh start.

Lara’s Story: Being Slut Shamed

Lara talks about feeling pressured to send nudes to a guy she was seeing and how she was blamed after they were shared. She talks about the impact that had on her mental health and gives her advice for getting through.

Lara’s Story: A fake relationship online

Lara talks about a guy pretending to be her boyfriend on his Social Media and sharing details about ‘dates’ they had been on. She talks about the fact that people believe what they see online without questioning it.

Nat’s Story: Getting a Dick Pic

Nat talks about getting a dick pic from a friend’s account and not being sure how to react. Later she finds out that his account had been hacked so lets him know what happened.

Tara’s Story: Standing up for someone

Tara shares her story about seeing someone getting nasty comments on Facebook and how she stepped in to say that was not ok.

Tim’s Story: Being told to kill himself (online and off)

Tim talks about being bullied and that he should kill himself to deal with his problems and how he got support to get through.

Shannon’s Story: A photo being secretly taken

Shannon talks about when a photo was taken up her skirt at her school without her knowing and then shared.

Eve’s Story-When sending a nude stayed positive

Eve talks about sending nudes in a long term relationship and how this stayed positive.

Mia’s Story-Sending nudes and then being ignored

Mia talks about chatting with a guy online for a few months and then sending nudes after he had asked and how he wouldn’t talk to her afterwards.

Beth’s Story-Someone using their charm to ask for nudes

Beth shares about her experience with a guy using his charm to try to get a nude from her friend, and from her.

Eve’s Story- Being bullied online and a death threat being part of this.

Eve shares her story about feeling bullied online and a threat made about her and what she did to get through the situation.

Eve’s Story-Someone else using her Social Media to cause trouble for her

Eve talks about her boyfriend logging into her social media account and sending messages which led to issues for her.

Bailey’s Story-Being Blackmailed to send Nudes

Bailey talks about sending a nude and then being blackmailed to send more.

Steph’s Story-Saying no to a request for nudes and then being dumped

Steph talks about being asked to send nudes from her boyfriend and what happened when she said no.

Ellie’s Story-A Fake Tinder Profile

Ellie talks about having a Tinder profile set up in her name and what she did about it.

Kate’s Story-A toxic friend impersonating a boy online to try to control a friendship

Kate talks about when a ‘friend’ pretended to be a boy messaging her and how things got worse from there.

Kate’s Story- Being excluded from FB groups

Kate talks about a friendship breaking down and then finding out she was being talked about in FB groups she wasn’t part of.

Sonia’s story-Having a Hate Page set up about her

Sonia talks about a hate page that was set up at her school about someone else and how she stepped in to help.

Anna’s Story-Being offered money by a stranger to send nudes on Snapchat

Anna talks about being contacted by a stranger on Snapchat and being offered money to send him nudes.

Kelly’s Story-Getting a random Dick Pic

Kelly talks about getting a ‘dick pic’ randomly, what she did about it and how it made her feel.

Jack’s Story-Fake Grindr Account

Jack talks about finding out someone was impersonating him on Grindr and getting the account taken down.

Jen’s Story-Online bullying and being told to kill herself

Jen talks about being bullied online and getting a message ‘out of the blue’ to kill herself.

Cody’s Story-A friend being filmed having sex and the video being shared

Cody talks about what happened to one of his friend’s when the guy she was with videoed them having sex and then shared it in groups online.

Jane’s Story-Using Timeline Review

Jane talks about embarrassing birthday posts on Facebook and how Timeline Review can help

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